How We Work

• Experiential – working with us is not just about talking. You will work with each other in real time practice, slowed down for learning.
• Safe and supportive – we meet you where you are.
• We bring our combined skills and experience, including 30+ years of our own growth as a couple.

Together we have deep expertise in system dynamics at multiple levels: individuals, couples, families, organizations, and how these levels interact. We are creative and adaptive while holding our intention for you to experience breakthrough in your relationship.

Eleanor Bell

Eleanor offers coaching for emotional well-being and relationships as a Certified Internal Family Systems practitioner and Certified Hakomi Practitioner. She brings over 20 years of experience as an organizational leader, mentor, and coach. She is particularly curious about people’s inner experience and how larger systems (families, organizations) impact individual emotional well-being and has a Ph.D. in Sociology.

Ben Trelease

Ben brings 15+ years of experience as a mental health counselor, specializing in couples. He is extremely interested in relationship dynamics and the dance that 2 people do together. He is a Certified PACT practitioner, Certified Hakomi Therapist, and trained in Non-Violent Communication.